My husband's father passed away in May of 2006, a few months before Gilly turned three. She doesn't really remember him now, although we show her lots of pictures and tell her as many stories as we can. Every now and then she'll have a vague memory of playing with him, but for the most part her memories come in the form of the anecdotes she's heard and the snapshots we show her. It makes me sad.
I wanted more of this.
And definitely more of this.
And good grief, the man put on bunny ears for his baby girl. More of this. Look at her cheesy face. She just ate him up. Loved him so much.
We got a check from Gigi today to help with Shine. Paw Paw had some specialized shoes still in the closet that she was able to sell and wanted Gilly to know that her Paw Paw loves her and would be so proud of her and would want to help.
I cry while I type. We miss him. I'm so glad that she's got one more concrete thing to remember him by, since she didn't have time to make very many memories. I think I'm going to use part of the money on the packing list, so that when she puts on those special shoes or that favorite sweater, she can think of Paw Paw.
Oh crying! That is so so so sweet.
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